Before Tour Part One

So here it is... the house that has become home, despite all of my initial misgivings. 

You'll notice that the front shot in yesterday's post is taken from sort of an odd angle.  Well, that's because from across the street, this is what you see:

Between the crepe myrtle and the cherry tree, the front is a bit hard to
distinguish, which is a shame.  The crepe myrtle will likely stay, but we home to take the cherry tree down sometime next year.  Hiding behind all of that is a rather inviting front porch.

 

 

And that, my friends, is where the charm ends.  Well, almost.  Right inside the front door, you will find the formal living room. 

 

 

Less than desirable laminate floors aside, this room is a blank slate and the room that probably needs the least work.  We hope to turn this into a formal dining room.  On the other side of the entryway is...

 

 

The ugliest wallpaper you've ever seen.  Seriously, these people had an unhealthy obsession with borders.  The wallpaper below doesn't help the cause any.  This room is smaller than our formal living room, so we'll likely keep the small table in there and use it as our everyday eating spot. 

 

Through the doorway is the kitchen.  Not so bad, right?

 

Yes, those are blue laminate countertops that are supposed to resemble marble.  With white cabinets.  And black appliances.  Oh, and the knobs on the cabinets?? Those are brass.  Hot.  I didn't even take any close-ups of the poorly done textured ceiling they put up to hide the remnants of a leak upstairs. 

 

The far end of the kitchen has a little space for a breakfast nook, which we will likely take over with an extension of the cabinets and countertop when we get around to redoing this room.  That space leads into the family room.

 

 

Why yes, those are yellow-cream and shit-brown walls.  Thanks for noticing. 

 

At least the fireplace is nice.  Notice there are no close ups of those walls.  I'd fill a memory card with pictures of the holes left behind. 

 

The final stop on our main room tour is the powder room.  Aside from the formal living room, this is probably the least objectionable room on the main floor of the house.   

Except for the wallpaper border. *shudder*

 





 

Posts to come... the before tour part two, and a lesson on how to destroy drywall by moving out of a house. 

Time for a direction change

So during my absence from blogging, I have been doing a lot of thinking.  As much as I love the way this blog began and as much as I still enjoy using it to chronicle the goings on with Kayla, it's just not enough to keep me at my keyboard any more.  I am still going to blog about the family as time goes on, but I am going to switch the focus from Kayla's milestones to what's happening with our new home. 

 

Right before we went to Saint Lucia at the end of June, we settled on this lovely little piece of the coolest small town in America.  I'll be honest, while I loved the location of this place, that was about all I loved when I first saw it.  It had been unoccupied for nearly a year, and it showed.  The previous owners also had very interesting taste... so I had a hard time imagining ourselves in it at first.  But after our townhouse went under contract on my birthday, we had no choice but to find a place - and fast.  This one, while it needed work, fit the bill quite nicely.  It's large enough that we no longer feel on top of one another all the time, and has a nice fenced-in yard for the dog, complete with pool for the people; that's caused me almost as much heartache as it has joy, but I am glad that we have it.  There is still a lot of work to be done, but I love that we can make it our own over the next few years. 

 

Often while we're working on something, I find myself going "gee, I should blog about this..." so that's what I'm going to do.  Don't worry, I'm still going to write about Kayla (especially as we hurtle through the next year toward kindergarten) and the other happenings with our little clan, but a lot of what you'll see on here in the future will be what's happening inside the house - so still Outside Looking In. 

 

Next post... the "before tour."  

Happy Fourth Birthday!

Dear Kayla -

Here we are yet again, another birthday in the books.  We just got home from your first international trip - a fantastic week in St. Lucia; it was the perfect culmination to your 4th year. 

You continue to develop into a sweet but demanding young lady.  You challenge me every single day, but those moments where you demand snuggles make it all worthwhile.  I have to admit that it scares me a little bit to think about how much like me you are. 

I look forward to every day with you, watching you learn and grow and try new things.  These days mean so much to me and I can't wait to see what the coming days hold. 

Love Always -

Mommy

New Year, Same Old Story

Yeah, so… that about sums it up.  Busy, busy, busy.  I know I owe you Halloween onward PLUS the year in review post… but 4.0 nine-credit semesters don’t come easy.  Throw in holidays, going back to the gym and trying to fend off the winter germs…  That’s my story and I’m sticking to it. 

 

I'm alive... promise

I can’t believe I actually allowed things to lapse for almost 3 months here.  In my defense, we did have a really busy summer… or at least I did.  I tidied up 12 credits during July and August, and only to an 11 day breather before the Fall semester (another 9 credits) started.  I did get my Dean’s List certificate for the 2012 academic year – my first one ever if you can believe it.  The countdown is on.  I register for my final semester in 28 days; I am just 7 months (give or take) from finally being done. 

 

We spent a few days at the beach with my in-laws in September; the weather was beautiful and we got to relax a little for those few days.  Kayla was in absolute heaven – playing in the sand, jumping in the waves, flying her kite and walking on the boardwalk.  She’s a little beach bum, just like us.  I loved our annual beach vacation when I was little, and I’m glad that she loves it now too. 

 

 

 

I started a new job about 3 weeks ago.  The jury is still out on how the future is going to shape up, but for right now I’m not super happy about it.  Hopefully I’ll have a better report once I’m fully into the routine of this department, but for now I’m actually missing crawling through basements and labeling boxes.  Who knew?

 

Kayla is doing exceptionally well, as usual.  She’s really enjoying being a Pooh Bear at school – back in the same classroom as her pals Paige and Lydia.  Huzzah!  She seems to love it there; her being able to tell me so makes it that much easier for me.  I wish I could spend more time with her, but that will come with the Holidays and the expenditure of the rest of my PTO. 

 

 

 

So for now, we are all alive and well, just tangled up in the day to day.  My brain needs exercise beyond reading about the history of Medical Insurance though, so I hope to be back soon. 

Happy Third Birthday!

Dearest little Kayla -

Here we are again, one day out from another fabulous birthday.  Once again I get to sit back and think about how far we've come in a year and smile.  You are so sweet and loving.  You are imaginative, smart and funny.  Most of all you are now 100% potty trained.  :-)  I am so proud of you; I can't even begin to tell you about my favorite moments.  There are far too many of them. 

You love to tell jokes, sing to yourself, and imitate things you've heard us say.  You are a champion bedtime staller; just one more story or one more song... again and again.  You love to color, draw, do puzzles and read books.  You navigate the iPod completely on your own but insist on saying "about" when you mean "without."  You love your puppy dog and playing outside. 

We had a whirlwind birthday week off... shopping for your party, having lunch with Grandma, your first fireworks and a trip to the aquarium.  So many fun things to do!  We also had to deal with the business of your doctor appointment.  You're now 37" and 30 pounds - still growing right on track!  We were also happy to hear that your heart murmur has resolved itself. 

Your party was a smashing success - our family and some of your friends all came together to celebrate.  Triple digit temperatures weren't enough to stop us from having a great time. 

Thank you for everything, sweet angel.  These have been the best and fastest 3 years ever.  I look forward to what this year brings. 

Love alaways -

~Mommy

Victories and Defeats

I came home from work today smiling with the knowledge that Kayla was doing a fantastic job on her first day in big girl panties. 

I came home from our HOA meeting with tears and extra hugs, because I know a mother who is hugging her sweet little fighter for the last time. 

I was hoping to write more, but nothing seems to come out right.  RIP little Sophie.  In your short time with us you were an inspiration and you will be missed.

Sick Day

Poor little dear had a stomach bug today.  Sweet little dog didn't leave her side. 

More creeping crud

Another wave of illnesses has struck our house.  After Kayla’s 5 day unexplained fever came pink eye for me and a stomach bug for Shaun.  Good times here people.  I still haven’t met my cousin’s adorable baby girl and the wait is KILLING me.  She’s going to be crawling by the time I get to see her at this rate. 

 

In happier news, my spring class is winding down and my schedule is all set for the summer and fall.  I’m a little behind where I’d hoped to be, but looks like May 17^th, 2013 is the graduation date.  Well, technically it will be the 10^th (or whenever I finish my exams) because I really have zero interest in walking at graduation.  It’s going to be crazy between now and then, with 1 class that requires on campus labs for Summer I, two classes that require on campus exams for the Fall, and the fact that Summer I and II overlap, so for about 6 weeks, I will be taking 4 classes at once.  I will be so glad when this is over.

 

 

So a month has come and gone

And I'm still slacking off without the benefit of having my knee to blame.  Over the last month, there were several more weeks of PT, a trip to the Strasburg RR, a St. Patty's day party and my first sunburn of the season, being relased from PT, a trip to Newark, DE for some fun with friends AND a puppy.  All that on top of the wife/mom/employee/student thing... makes for a busy month.  Our laptop is currently out of commission as well, so separating myself from the herd to write more than my required discussion questions for school is tough.  I'm going to try to get both blogs updated soon (plus add a few recipes to the cooking blog) and hopefully get back on track.